There is a hard way to get what you want, and there is aneasy way. Which one do you choose? The answer is obvious,everybody wants the easy way, but most people are not evenaware of the existence of the easy way.Most of us have been told, since the moment we were born,that in order to succeed in life, we have to work hard andstruggle. It has been said "no pain, no gain". For mostpeople, life is just a long series of struggles.If that is what you are feeling, I have good news for you!There is an easy way, which will lead to your ultimatedestiny in the most stress free manner.Listen carefully, because this is going to determinewhether your life is fulfilling, happy and stress free,leading to a high quality of life.Here is the ultimate secret of the universe: "Change theway you look at things, and the things you look at willchange."Pay special attention to these words. Really think aboutwhat they mean.Yes, I hear what you are saying. You have heard it amillion times. Everybody knows it. If this is what you arethinking, I must warn you not to take these words lightly.I can tell you 90% of people read these words, and don'tunderstand what they truly mean. You can tell by simplywatching their lives. If you are not living a happy,fulfilled life RIGHT NOW, I can tell you, "You are nottruly understanding these words”. Then let's get down to adeep understanding of this golden rule of success.As I have discussed in my earlier articles, we are livingin a material world, which is made up of molecules, whichare made up of atoms, which in turn are made up ofsubatomic particles. We have also discussed that thesesubatomic particles act at our commands, they come intoexistence only when we observe them.Let's see what scientists say about these amazing buildingblocks of this world. The subatomic particle is a kind ofwave packet, which can be in the state of wave and particlesimultaneously. We describe a particle by its location, andwe describe a wave by its momentum. However, the subatomicparticle can exist as a particle and a wave at the sametime. This sounds very counterintuitive, but it is true.Either the subatomic particle becomes a particle or itbecomes a wave, it depends on how you measure it. If youdecide to measure it by its location, it instantly becomesa particle, if you decide to measure it by its momentum, itinstantly becomes a wave. It all depends on how we measure(or how we observe) it.Deepak Chopra in his new book, "Spontaneous Fulfillment ofDesires", describes a thought experiment by ErwinSchrödinger. Imagine you have a closed box that contains awave-particle, a cat, a lever, and a bowl of cat food witha loose lid. If the wave-particle becomes a particle, theparticle will trip the lid, and the cat will eat. If thewave-particle becomes a wave, the lid will remain on thefood. When we open the box (making an observation), we willeither see an empty bowl and a happy cat, or a full bowland a hungry cat. It all depends on how we observe. Beforewe open the box, the bowl is both empty and full, and thecat is both fed and hungry. Both possibilities exist at thesame time. Deepak says "It is the observation alone thatturns possibility into reality."The whole point is that the basic building block of thematerial world acts at our command. At the very moment ofour observation, it comes into existence. We are thecreator of our world. Nothing exists without ourobservation.How does that relate to manifesting your desires? Well, ithas everything to do with manifesting your desires. Whydoes our life seem like a struggle? Why don’t we get themoney we want? Why don't we get the relationship that wehave always desired? Why is our life is filled with a longlist of never ending problems? All these are because of ourhabitual way of observing the world. We have beenconditioned that what we are seeing is reality, and wecontinue to live this way and continue to observe the samethings happen in our lives. Let me tell you, your realityis not reality. Only you choose and observe it to be yourreality. As soon as you realize your own observation is thecause of everything, then you can literally decide tocreate another reality. You can decide to observe anotherreality into your world, only when you choose to.How do you do it? First, don't let your outer world deludeyou, this is not necessarily the reality. Secondly, observeexactly what you want in your mind, observe it withcertainty and clarity, and then let it go, knowing that youhave already created your desires at the quantum level. Yousimply let the universe arrange for it to come to you. Whenthe opportunities come, don't forget to take action andexpress your gratitude. Everything begins with your changeof the way you look at your world.Remember "Change the way you look at things, and the thingsyou look at will change."